OXFORD, Miss. — A 25-year-old Mississippi man was sentenced Tuesday to 40 years in prison after pleading guilty to murdering a gay university student — a case prosecutors say stemmed from the killer’s desire to conceal their sexual relationship.
Sheldon Timothy Herrington Jr. admitted to second-degree murder and tampering with evidence in the 2022 death of Jimmie “Jay” Lee, a 20-year-old graduate student at University of Mississippi. Authorities say Herrington killed Lee to hide their intimate relationship.
Lee vanished in July 2022. Two weeks later, Herrington was arrested and charged with capital murder. But after a first trial ended in a 2024 mistrial, his second trial concluded this week with a guilty plea. His sentence—40 years in prison—includes time for both the murder and evidence tampering charges.
Lee’s remains were discovered only after more than two years. In February 2025, deer hunters located skeletal remains in a wooded area of Carroll County, which were later identified as those of Lee. The discovery followed extensive investigation and renewed pressure from Lee’s family and community.
Friends and loved ones remember Lee as an expressive, outgoing student — involved in drag performance and known for embracing his identity without apology. In the courtroom after sentencing, Lee’s family described a long and painful journey of grief, frustration and loss; the verdict brought a measure of closure but also underscored a harsh reality about the stakes faced by members of the LGBTQ+ community forced to stay hidden.
Advocates say the case paints a grim picture of how stigma, secrecy and fear can turn deadly. For Lee — and for many others like him — living openly was a statement of identity and survival. For those left behind, the hope remains that justice serves not only as punishment, but also as a warning: that hiding the truth of who you are can come with devastating consequences.
